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When Chris and Walt married

Sat, 01/10/2026 - 14:55
OK, I'll admit it. For decades I've tried to write songs and have crashed and burned each and every time. I'm totally aware of why this has happened time and again. My personal standards. i.e., what I expect of myself are most likely way too high. It seemed like everything I wrote came out like D-class James Taylor or Paul Simon. It was embarrassing and with one small recent exception, no one ever heard my efforts.
But that began to change just a bit a couple years ago when I read Jeff Tweedy's wonderful book "How to Write One Song." I've always loved his music and his book is self-deprecating, often funny but also encouraging. "Hey, maybe I can do this...." is what he wants your starting point to be. He offers many great ideas and writing techniques and everything he says makes perfect sense.
One small glimmer of light I should note. I have about two dozen or so pieces of music I've written and recorded with the idea that maybe, just maybe a couple of them will serve as foundations for lyrics. So, I guess my problem is not really writing songs, it's writing lyrics.
Once in a while I get students who are very interested in how songs are created and we discuss it at length based on what we've read or heard by famous songwriters. So many fascinating concepts are there if you look for them. To me, one of the most fascinating is the idea of cooperative writing. It blows my mind that musicians who don't normally play together but are friends can get together for the express purpose of writing, and from everything I've read they seem to love the process. Wow. My reaction to this is always: these people must really, really trust each other. To reveal deep inner thoughts, to not be afraid to fail, to blossom with the encouragement of another person....I'm convinced only certain people can do those things.
About a month ago Kathy and I were down in Dallas visiting our son Matt and his wife Alli. One of the areas we always love to wander around is the Bishop Arts District. There are dozens of very cool little shops, cafes, restaurants, bars (often with live music) and much more. One of the definitely funky shops we always check out is a must-do because you just never know what you might find beyond the dozens of pairs of used cowboy boots, vintage clothing, old and sometimes bizarre knick-knacks and much more. This time I noticed a big old bowl filled with random very old black and white photos. With absolutely nothing in mind or any purpose I began sifting through the hundred or so old photos. One, quite small but in good condition caught my eye. I looked at it closely, including the pencil note on the back where someone had written: "Aug 15, 1947.    When Walt & Chris married"
Who knows why, but it struck me. There was an amazing amount of small details that instantly had me intrigued. Walt and Chris are standing close together with two dogs at their feet, nose to nose, almost like the hounds were meeting for the first time. The newly married couple seem to be dressed modestly but in their Texas-best, especially Walt in his freshly pressed pants and cowboy hat. Leaning against the modest but tidy ranch house are a pair of crutches. Showing the picture to one of my students he remarked: I know what those crutches are there. Look at Chris's right leg. She had polio at some point in her life.
And lo and behold, I'm sure he's right.
They are not young people. The empty corral behind the ranch house with the plains stretching out beyond made me wonder: Was - or is - Walt a cowboy? If so, where is his horse? In a barn we don't see, perhaps. Or maybe his riding days are long gone.
Chris wears a modest dress and upon looking closely with a magnifying glass, she seems to be smiling slightly. How did they meet? Did she work in town in a bank or a livery where Walt did business?
We'll never know who took the picture. Could it have been a child from a previous marriage or perhaps a close relative of one of the newly married couple? Are there more people out of camera range? Again, we'll never know.
One of my long-term students has been attempting some original music over the last couple of years. I've offered suggestions and with each effort her results have improved and matured. She is very creative and when I suggested we dive into a song about Walt and Chris she has very psyched, as I was. For the last month we've been throwing ideas back and forth and slowly but surely the song is emerging. I remembered a piece of music I wrote and recorded a couple years ago and upon listening to it for the first time since I came up with it, I thought....yes. That's it.
We still have some polishing to do but we're in agreement about the "tone" of the lyrics, a rough approximation of the intro/verse/chorus/bridge/outro sequence and how important it is to avoid cliches. It would of course be pretty easy for it to be a basic country tune but we're trying to not totally take that route. Because, quite frankly, I feel like there is a lot more going on in that old photo than meets the eye and I just don't want to do an injustice to Walt and Chris, even though I will never meet them. We'll see what happens but I'll tell you this - it sure is fun! I may even post the finished product. When it's ready.
Peace & good music,
Gene
Categories: Acoustics

Who's the best? Who cares??

Tue, 12/02/2025 - 07:37

​Guitarists are a funny lot, taken as a group. "Civilians" i.e., our spouses and friends will agree; my wife sure does. We tend to be VERY opinionated on just about everything music-related and even more so (if that's even possible!) when it comes subjects like: What is the best guitar? Is learning a song note-perfect really necessary or even worth the time and effort? But nothing comes close to the real biggie: Who is the "best" guitarist? After a while most guitarists realize there are way too many variables to answer that question definitively but it still gets asked.
 
That's only natural. Take sports, for example. It's easy to drown in an ocean of statistics. It's a great way to back up one's argument because most statistics in sports are beyond dispute. How those statistics are interpreted, that's where things get sticky. Music is a totally different beast. Sure, there are statistics like how many recordings are sold by a particular artist or how many times a song has been downloaded or streamed; how many weeks a song is popular based on those metrics, how many times it's been covered by other artists. Pre-orders of soon to be released recordings, selling out huge concert venues, appearances on TV. To an avid fan who is not a musician it would be natural to draw a line between popularity and expertise.
 
Is that fair, or even correct? From where I sit I must answer with a resounding NO. Last March and April I volunteered at a wonderful place, Fogartyville Community Media and Art Center in Sarasota, Florida. I will put in a link below and if you are going to be in the Sarasota area and are interested in learning more about this wonderful place I promise you will be impressed. I mostly checked in audience members and showed them to their seats at evening shows. The experience was all I'd hoped it would be and then some! The folks who run Fogartyville are warm and friendly; the place is truly a treasure. I'll most likely do it again this coming March and April, if they'll have me back  ;~)
https://wslr.org/fogartyville/
The music I heard there was incredibly good, played by touring musicians and locals who were passionate about putting their craft in front of an audience. As you would imagine I was mostly listening to and watching the guitarists and wow, did I hear some good ones! Applying some metric about how well known they were relative to the quality of their playing would have been downright silly. Sure, most of them would probably like being more widely known and that was certainly one reason they were on the road.

But I would venture a bigger reason is something that non-musicians might not understand. For most professional musicians, putting yourself out there is really the only way to truly test yourself or put another way, determine just how "good" you really are.
 
We can practice diligently in the safety of our homes and there are ways to measure our progress. I encourage my students to use the memo app on their phones to make short recordings of what they are currently working on and save them in a file. BUT....do NOT listen to them! Wait at least a couple months, maybe more, then give them a good listen. In most cases you will hear some measure of improvement and regardless if that improvement is substantial or small you have a legit reason to pat yourself on the back. And no matter how much we may want to deny it, there are times when a good pat is just what we need.

Another quantitative way to measure our progress is using a metronome. For the last few years I've been urging all my students to use one. A metronome clicks and/or flashes and is set by selecting a beats-per-minute setting. Start slowly - considerably slower than what you hope the finished product will be. Fifty or even 40 beats per minute is a good place to start. Important: do NOT turn it on and just start playing in hopes of connecting with the beat, which is much more difficult than it may sound. Let the thing click away and begin counting sequences of beats. You'll most likely be in 4/4 time (4 beats per measure) and you will want to try sequences of three beats if the music is in 3/4. Count at least two measures before diving in. If you've never used a metronome before there will be moments when you want to throw the thing at the nearest wall. But with a bit of practice you'll get the hang of it. Beyond the fact that practicing with one will make you a better player if you want to play with others there is a more important benefit: You now have a solid way to measure your progress. Starting slow but after a practice session or two when you feel confident you can "lock in" at that slow beat, start increasing the speed gradually, something along the lines of just two to five bpm. Just like doing those recordings and listening to them much later you have a solid way to judge your progress.
 
But getting back to The Big Question: Who is the best player? I will give you my thoughts on that and I fully expect there will be those who disagree. A better question is: Which player makes me go - wow, I sure would like to be able to play like that!  In the jazz world my favorite player is Martin Taylor (best guitar name ever!) who is generally considered to be the best finger-style jazz player on the planet. In blues, Keb' 'Mo is by far my favorite player. Keb can play any blues style and does it with grace and class and passion, plus he is a great singer. Among modern steel string acoustic players the late, great Tony Rice has been my favorite for decades and while there are many younger players who have learned that style very well (Billy Strings being the current champion) I will always admire Tony because he was the first to bring elements of jazz into the bluegrass realm along with the great David Grisman on mandolin. I don't really have a favorite among finger-style acoustic guitarists, which is strange as that style is what I mostly play.
 
On the other side of the coin.....Although he certainly has monster chops, Tommy Emmanuel is just a bit too over-the-top for me with his percussive style that sometimes seems like he's challenging his guitar to stay in one piece as he wails away on it. But I can see his appeal, especially to younger players who impressed by flashy playing. In the world of electric blues, Joe Bonamassa pretty much reigns supreme these days but to me he subscribes to the same rule book as Tommy E. in that he would much prefer to play a hundred fast notes where some might feel (me) that half as many played with deep feeling and phrasing might serve him better. I felt the same about the late Stevie Ray Vaughn. Repeating, though - I don't doubt for a second any of those guys have massive talent.
 
So.....see what I mean? Answering the question of who's the "best" I will leave to others. One thing is for certain. Bringing up that question among guitarists will surely spark some lively conversations!
 
Peace & good music,
Gene

Categories: Acoustics

Practicing without your guitar. Wait...What???

Tue, 11/18/2025 - 12:16
For a whole boatful of reasons, no one I know gets to put in the practice time they'd like. That certainly describes Yours Truly. My excuses are even more lame (no pun intended) over the last month due to being mostly house-bound as I drag around a cast that runs from just below my knee to halfway down my foot. While I've been able to continue teaching, that's pretty much the extent of my physical activity. Lesson prep and transcribing new songs for myself and some for my students at least allows me to not feel that the last month has been a total waste of time. But practice - honest challenging myself to work on things I absolutely SHOULD be practicing, um, no. That didn't happen.
 
Just in the nick of time and totally by accident a classical guitarist/teacher who sends me various dispatches from his world touched on the value of "ear practice." He highly recommends listening hard to pieces he may or may not know from a music student's perspective. What instruments are present? Do the player or players stretch the rhythm a bit at certain points to accentuate dramatic passages? Or are they strictly on the beat because the piece has always been played that way? Does the song remind you of other songs by the same artist or others and if so, why? He also stresses that those questions and many more can and should be asked about any type of music, not just classical guitar stuff.   
 
I'm frequently asked by students if there is any beneficial way to strengthen their hands and at the same time enhance flexibility without actually playing their guitar. Over the years many devices have come (and gone) on the market to help guitarists do just that. About the best thing I've found is a simple foam rubber-type ball. This type of ball has just enough "give" to make it feel good to squeeze and although I can't scientifically prove using one improves your guitar playing but it seems logical that it must, to some degree. I keep one in my car and one in the room where I watch TV so I can mindlessly squeeze and release it. Many years ago, I knew players who swore by those triangular hand exercisers that are designed for athletes who need to maintain a good grip on things like baseball bats, tennis racquets and golf clubs. I bought one a long time ago but found it too tight and downright painful with frequent use so I abandoned it.
 
In recent years I've been forcing myself to improve my posture, both when sitting and standing. Good posture is a vital part of playing and singing well. It fosters productive and unincumbered breathing, which helps encourage relaxation. This is something I wish I'd done many decades ago. Like most guitarists, throughout my playing life I've unconsciously hunched over the body and neck of my guitar to see where my fingers are on the fretboad. A much better strategy is to hold the body of the guitar absolutely flat against my belly and chest. Yes, you still will have to look over the neck to some degree but relying on your ear and muscle memory of the various hand and finger angles rather than totally depending on their placement relative to the frets via your eyesight is a hugely valuable skill to master. So these days I make a serious effort to sit up straight, keep my head back and drop my shoulders when sitting in a chair or driving my car. Trying to unlearn hunching over the guitar is not easy but I'm beginning to see some positive results.
 
The most important component in all music is rhythm. If it's not there it doesn't matter how many fancy licks you can play, without a steady beat that's all they are - random samples of notes without purpose. All popular music (in order to be popular) has lots of repetition in terms of chord sequences, individual chord changes and mostly identical verses in terms of length and chords with a chorus that comes around again and again. There may be a bridge, which is a short section that is different than the verse and chorus. This is no accident. The more the songwriter can make you remember a song in the shortest amount of time, the more likely it is that you'll be able to recognize it and decide if you like it - or not. When a song comes on the radio while you're driving, try to count the beats before a noticeable change comes along. Then, when the next verse begins try to predict when that change will occur again. If you do this a lot, when you dive into a new song you want to learn it's likely you'll find it easier to make your chord changes at places that just sound "right." And they probably are!
 
Closing my eyes and imagining the guitar neck in my hand with my fingers moving between invisible chords and single note phrases is definitely not a waste of time, even if it looks a bit silly when I'm doing it. Sometimes I hum the melody to the song as I'm doing this, which helps my hands move to their approximate positions (assuming of course that I have the chords of the song memorized).
 
If you tend to like organization in your life, think about what worked and what didn't the last few times you sat down to play. Write stuff down if you're afraid you might forget. Think about jumping right into a song or an exercise that is a bit challenging rather than just sitting down and noodling through some chords or riffs - the same ones you've been playing for years. Taking an immediate chance with a challenging piece of music is especially valuable if you are like me and I suspect the majority of players who just automatically begin by playing a sequence or even just a few of the same old chords. Yes, I know, that's stress free and don't we all want to sound good, if even for just ourselves? Problem is, doing that every time you sit down to play can easily put your creative urges on the back burner. Not only that, when you do decide to try something more challenging and creative you have trouble abandoning that back burner....because it's safe there! To break the habit of the same old, same old riffs and chords when you begin playing it helps a LOT to have a game plan, which is another thing to think about and construct while you're sitting in a car or at the breakfast table or on a bench in a park somewhere.   
 
What this all comes down to is the simple fact that you CAN be developing habits that will improve your playing even if there isn't a guitar in sight. Sure, there is no absolute guarantee this practice without your guitar thing will yield quick results and it just might produce very little that creates a straight line to better playing. But I can guarantee it's a lot more satisfying than paying attention to politics or trying to justify paying seven dollars for a cup of coffee at Starbucks!
 
Peace & good music,
Gene
Categories: Acoustics

Expressing your views in performance - Yeah or Nay?

Mon, 10/27/2025 - 13:45
Lately I've noticed quite a bit of shade thrown at my generation, now generally known as the Boomers, those born in the "baby boom" after World War II. That designation is generally applied to those of us born between 1946 and 1964, covering a slightly wider range than those labeled at Gen X'ers, Millennials and those even younger. There seems to be a growing belief that we had it easy. On the surface, I can certainly understand what they are saying. For many it was a time of seemingly no limits to what we could achieve and opportunities were everywhere if put in the effort to achieve them. Television shows like "Father Knows Best," "Ozzie and Harriet," "The Jackie Gleason Show," "The Andy Griffith Show" and many others purported to reflect our own families, if not in total reality but in ways that usually had elements with which we could relate. It was a time when it was possible for our parents to have jobs that were secure with the potential for advancement and maybe even work for the same company until retirement. Father was the breadwinner and it was possible to earn a living wage for his family; no need for Mom to go out and work, and her "job" was to maintain a happy, safe and nurturing home. 

But now appears a growing number of Millennials and Gen X people look at the state of our world and our country and their own lives and say: You Boomers are in charge and have been for a while. Why the hell did you let things get to where they are now? How did all your altruism that you were so proud of morph into complacency? Is it simply a case of something like - "I've got mine and I worked hard for it. That's what you need to do! Get your eyes off your f'n phone and do something constructive!"

OK, all that is a grossly inadequate and simplistic way to explain our present reality from a Boomer's point of view and that of some younger people. Beyond that, to a person of color who grew up in the 1950s and 60s all the above could very well have zero relevance. In a very roundabout way this leads me to where I should be in this blog - talking about music.

A local musician I know posted a very interesting question on social media: Should a performer's political persuasion factor into whether or not he or she gets a gig? And the follow-up question: Should a bar or restaurant owner's political beliefs factor into whether or not a performer will even want to play at their establishment? As you might imagine, there were some very strong opinions expressed on BOTH questions. Without getting into the politics that caused those questions to be asked in the first place, I have been trying to figure out what I would do if there was no way to avoid them.

I consider myself to be part of a subset of the Boomers. In my formative teenage years many of my peers began questioning the validity of the values our parents hoped to instill in us. Injustice, lies from those in charge and the "America - Love It or Leave It!" doctrine seemed to be engulfing us. A foreign war in a place most of us had never heard of was claiming lives at an ever-increasing rate. That war was being fought in large part by young Americans whose socioeconomic reality didn't offer a way to avoid it, thanks to the draft. Some went willingly, in the beginning anyway.

At the same time, as has always been the case the arts were one of the first places where questions were raised as the harsh light of the reality began to shine. Famous rock and folk musicians began writing, recording and performing songs that addressed the inequality and injustice. Many of those songs were soon learned and covered by local musicians performing in small and large venues. I would venture that the majority of my peers who took up the guitar in the 1960s learned to play Dylan's "Blowin' in the Wind" as one of their very first songs. 

This was not the case everywhere. In parts of America where country music was overwhelmingly popular, just the opposite was happening. Almost without exception the voices in country music viewed any questioning of national policy as unpatriotic at the very least and their music reflected that view. More importantly, their fans agreed with their message.

Both sides made passionate and increasingly angry music to make their points and their music was learned and played by both recreational musicians and those who played in local establishments. The reactions of listeners were equally passionate, both for and against what they heard.

What I'm saying is this: What musicians face these days is not new. But things have changed. Regardless of one's political persuasion there is one thing on which I think we can all agree: Our country and our Constitutional democracy are being tested as never before. The rest of the world is watching with either fear or hope that what happens here will have a direct effect on them, too.

Musicians are just like everyone else. They have deeply-held beliefs but they also have the power to express those beliefs that most non-musicians do not have. Should they use that power in a way that leaves little doubt which side of the divide they inhabit?

In my view, no. I know some will vehemently disagree. But in the end, you will most likely find yourself in one of two places, either despised by those who do not share your views or "preaching to the converted." Both places are a waste of your time and effort. The idea that being preached at via a song will force the listener to have some kind of epiphany and change their point of view in any substantive manner speaks more to the performer's ego than anything else.

Artists have always felt the need to express themselves though their chosen medium and sometimes to comment to a greater or lesser degree on what they see around them. I hope this is always the case. It's up to the viewer or listener to decide whether or not they want to pay attention and accept or deny the validity of the artist's vision. 

Music, in its purest sense, transcends just about any experience we mere mortals can have. Allowing yourself to fully embrace that transcendence makes decisions about what's right and what's wrong much easier to make. Those decisions are deeply personal and need no justification, just a clear and open mind. 

​Peace & good music,
Gene
 
Categories: Acoustics

Reserving judgement

Thu, 10/16/2025 - 15:38

​I HAVE to get back to regular posts on my little blog, said Gene to himself. Lots has happened since the last post, perhaps of interest, perhaps not. But if nothing else, putting down some thoughts and ideas about guitar playing, the music biz and suggestions to help us all weather the societal storm that is raging all around us with music can't hurt, right?
So I'll dive right in. I know my site is primarily about acoustic guitar but here's a suggestion for something that may brighten your day. Bad habit of mine: being "late to the parade" when I discover a group or artist that I instantly love but who's been around for a long time. I try to keep an open mind and do a good amount of research but I often depend upon friends and relatives to turn me on to people making great music. Often, it's my son Matt who I'm proud to say has very eclectic tastes in music but often steers me in a direction I would not have considered. While we will never agree on certain things (his occasional recommendations of some hip-hop "artist") and my love of bluegrass/newgrass but a few months ago he strongly recommended singer/songwriter MJ Lenderman and as it happened, I was teaching a recent song by the alt/country group Waxahatchee called "Right Back To It" that featured him as a guest artist singing harmony. Love the song, excellent lyrics and a catchy chord sequence over a solid melody (check it out!). 
Anyway, I did my due diligence and checked out MJ. He's a bit too much of the "shoe gazer" variety of younger musicians but some of his songs caught my attention and I'll be spending more time getting to know his stuff. 
I am proud to say that way, way back I used to play a mix tape (remember them?) on our long-distance camping trips when Matt and his sister Joanna were kids. Matt credits that old tape with helping him discover some music from his dad's misspent youth that he really liked. It included songs by Santana, Traffic, Beatles (of course!) and the long, live version of the Stones "Midnight Rambler" recorded at Madison Square Garden in 1969. If you haven't listened to that one in a while I strongly endorse giving it another go. Whew, barely controlled chaos by the Stones at the height of their pure power. 
But back to my recent discoveries of music and artists I should have paid attention to a long time ago. The group Los Straightjackets just released their first album of totally original material in over eight years, called Somos. They are unabashed carriers of the spirit of pure electric guitar twang ala Dick Dale and Duanne Eddy, sometimes called surf music back in the day. BUT.....thanks to modern recording technology and the fact that they are all virtuoso players they surpass anything done in the 1960s. All the 15 songs on the album are instrumentals and only one clocks out at barely over three minutes in length but wow, wow, wow. Some of the songs feature strong melodies at moderate speeds and one reviewer said: this is what the Beatles would have sounded like at the Cavern in 1962 if the Beatles were much better players with much better equipment. And I agree 100%. However, the majority are straight-ahead rockers and if your foot isn't taping after the first few licks you'd better check your pulse! You can buy the album to download or download-plus-CD from Yep Roc records where you'll find MANY other great artists. This album has become my go-to when I want to forget the latest news from Washington, at least for a few minutes and have my soul rubbed clean. Oh, and all the band members wear Mexican pro wrestler masks when they perform. Why? Why not!
My own performing over the last couple of months has been more frequent than I thought it would be. After my 13-year tenure at the Daily Brew ended I did beat the streets a bit in hopes of finding a similar gig but nothing came of that. Finding gigs has never been my strong suit anyway; I very much admire musicians who brush off rejection almost immediately and continue their efforts. I have never been that guy, nor will I ever be. I don't deal well with rejection and that is pretty much what it comes down to. But thankfully and for reasons no one really understands, when people are looking for a guitarist to play a wedding ceremony or for a private event here on Cape Cod my site seems to come up frequently. Thanks, Google, I guess.... (!) So over the past three months I've played four wedding ceremonies, a couple of them included the cocktail hour, two private parties and two more of the wonderful Music at the Table events that I wrote about earlier this year. I'll be doing another one of those next week. For the second year in a row, back in August I played the North Falmouth Porchfest accompanied by my friend and sometime-student Tom Austin. It was great fun, the weather was picture-perfect and the crowds were estimated at twice what they were last year and they were very enthusiastic. In spite of a couple glitches in PA system at our location Tom and I were very pleased with our performance and some people we know said it was the best they'd ever heard us. I absolutely LOVE playing with Tom. His pure joy in making music is infectious even to this old musician. The best part for me is that I can totally depend on Tom to be there on the chord changes and better yet, he adjusts when I go a bit off the tracks.  
I also had the opportunity to meet some very good local musicians who played Porchfest at our location and I'm hoping to get together with a couple of them in the coming weeks to try some tunes in a slightly different setting than I'm used to. 
Which brings me back to what I said at the beginning of this blog entry. We are in the middle of an existential moment in history. Every day it seems there is a new crisis that seems to challenge the very existence of our democracy. No matter which side of the political fence you inhabit, try hard to not make instant judgements (and for me personally, that is very hard to do sometimes). Gather as much information as you can, from as many sources as possible. Don't fall for easy answers to complex problems. And for me anyway, the best way to channel emotions is via that wood and steel contraption sitting on my leg. It doesn't pass judgement although at times it will challenge my honesty - my honesty with myself. More than anything, it offers an escape where you can rebuild your strength.
 
Peace & good music,
Gene
  

Categories: Acoustics